• Guilt

    What Are You Carrying In Your Sacks?

    There is an old legend about three men and their sacks. Each man had two sacks, one tied in front of his neck and the other tied on his back. When the first man was asked what was in his sacks, he said, “In the sack on my back are all the good things friends and family have done. That way they’re hidden from view. In the front sack are all the bad things that have happened to me. Every now and then I stop, open the front sack, take the things out, examine them, and think about them.” Because he stopped so much to concentrate on all the bad stuff, he really didn’t make much progress in life.
    The second man was asked about his sacks. He replied, “In the front sack are all the good things I’ve done. I like to see them, so quite often I take them out to show them off to people. The sack in the back? I keep all my mistakes in there and carry them all the time. Sure they’re heavy. They slow me down, but you know, for some reason I can’t put them down.”
    When the third man was asked about his sacks, he answered, “The sack in front is great. There I keep all the positive thoughts I have about people, all the blessings I’ve experienced, all the great things other people have done for me. The weight isn’t a problem. The sack is like sails of a ship. It keeps me going forward.
    “The sack on my back is empty. There’s nothing in it. I cut a big hole in its bottom. In there I put all the bad things that I can think about myself or hear about others. They go in one end and out the other, so I’m not carrying around any extra weight at all.”
    What are you carrying in your sacks?
    H. Norman Wright, The Perfect Catch (Bethany House, 2000)

  • Guidance

    G-U-I-dance

    When I meditated on the word “guidance,” I kept seeing “dance” at the end of the word.
    I remember reading that doing God’s will is a lot like dancing. When two people try to lead, nothing feels right. The movement doesn’t flow with the music, and everything is quite uncomfortable and jerky.
    When one person lets the other lead, both bodies begin to flow with the music. One gives gentle cues, perhaps with a nudge to the back or by pressing lightly in one direction or another. It’s as if two become one body, moving beautifully. The dance takes surrender, willingness, and attentiveness from one person and gentle guidance and skill from the other.
    My eyes drew back to the word guidance. When I saw “G”, I thought of God, followedby “u” and “i”. God, “u” and “i” dance”. God, you, and I dance. This statement is what guidance means to me.
    As I lowered my head, I became willing to trust that I would get guidance about my life. I became willing to let God lead.
    From The Sermon Fodder Email List

  • Gossip

    Triple Filter Test

    In ancient Greece, Socrates was reputed to hold knowledge in high esteem.

    One day an acquaintance met the great philosopher and said, “Do you know what I just heard about your friend?”

    “Hold on a minute,” Socrates replied.

    “Before telling me anything I’d like you to pass a little test. It’s called the Triple Filter Test.”

    “Triple filter?”

    “That’s right,” Socrates continued. “Before you talk to me about my friend, it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you’re going to say. That’s why I call it the triple filter test. The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?”

    “No,” the man said, “actually I just heard about it and…”

    “All right,” said Socrates. “So you don’t really know if it’s true or not. Now let’s try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?”

    “No, on the contrary…”

    “So,” Socrates continued, “you want to tell me something bad about him, but you’re not certain it’s true. You may still pass the test though, because there’s one filter left: the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?”

    “No, not really.”

    “Well,” concluded Socrates, “if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?”

    Quoted from CyberSalt.org email list

  • Good Neighbours,  Love,  Neighbours

    Treat Your Neighbours With love

    When I was growing up, my father use to say, “No matter who they are or what they do, treat your neighbors with love.”

    I didn’t fully understand what he meant until one Sunday on our way to church, when we spotted someone shoveling corn from our crib into a battered old truck. Dad stopped the car and got out. The man looked up and froze.

    I knew this man. Everybody in town suspected him of stealing their gas! No one had ever confronted him for fear of his violent temper. Now we’d caught him red-handed. What was Dad going to do?

    “If that’s not enough,” my father said evenly, “come back tomorrow. Take as much as you need. Remember, you’re my neighbor.”

    The man dropped his shovel and hung his head.

    He never stole from us or anyone else in town again, as far as I know. Perhaps he learned how to be a good neighbor that day. I know I did.

    Louis Lehman, Albany, Oregon. Quoted from: home.att.net/~scorh3/GoodNeighbor.html

  • Golf

    When I was Your Age …

    A young man who was an avid golfer found a few hours to spare one afternoon and hustled to the golf course. He figured if he hurried and played very fast, he could get in 9 holes before he had to head home.
    Just as he was about to tee off an old gentleman shuffled onto the tee and asked if he could accompany the young man, as he was golfing alone.
    Not being able to say no, he allowed the old gent to join him.
    To his surprise the old man played fairly quickly. He didn’t hit the ball far but plodded along consistently and didn’t waste much time.
    They reached the ninth fairway, and the young man found himself with a tough shot. There was a large pine tree right in front of his ball, directly between the ball and the green.
    After several minutes of debating how to hit the shot, the old man finally said, “You know, when I was your age I’d hit the ball right over that tree.”
    With that challenge placed before him, the youngster swung hard and hit the ball right smack into the top of the tree trunk, where it thudded back on the ground not a foot from where it had originally been.
    The old man offered one more comment, “Of course, when I was your age that pine tree was only 3 feet tall.”

  • God's Love,  Love,  Sin

    What Does He See?

    What
    does he see
    in me
    that
    even though he knows
    my sinfullness,
    he says,
    “You are precious
    to my heart”?

    Wellsprings p227 – Anthony de Meool